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Travelling to different countries, different places presents various experiences. Upon returning from Sydney, I took notice that some of my travel experiences were a letdown because of extremely different travelling styles between myself, my friends, or fellow travellers that I've met whilst exploring certain cities. Although, I do try to rationalize to myself that a bad experience, is an experience in itself and is often more memorable than a happy experience. It is often a good idea that we shall skip the lie that some of us tell ourselves and jump straight into choosing our travelling partner.
The blog hits the nail on the spot, as it is often that as we travel more in the company of friends, that we have come to the unfortunate realisation that not all good friends make good travel partners. Gaining an understanding that different people have different travelling styles and habits goes a long way in helping us to choose the right travel partners and ensuring our trips go as smoothly, or as interestingly, from my perspective, as possible.
I guess for me, it really depends on where we travel, the purpose of the trip and generally how energetic I am. I enjoy a good balance of both, but usually leaning towards the quarter slice formula consisting of:
#2 THE NEAT FREAK, OR THE MESSY MONSTER
I am the neat freak, but of course with conditions. I like everything to be easy to find, clean, efficient so that I am always prepared for what may lie ahead. I do not want to walk through a mine-field littered with junk, clothes, whatever you can imagine, to be able to reach my bed or the shower.
I prefer the luggage to be neatly set out on the luggage rack, clothes that will be worn to be hanged carefully in the closet and shoes preferably in the closet too. Although communicating these expectations with your fellow traveller is important to ensure that both needs and wants are accommodated, but it'll definitely be so much easier with a fellow travelee that follows the same rules, this of course negates those who are messy but fun to travel with, you guys are the only few exceptions.
#3 THE ADVENTUROUS FOODIE, OR THE SAFE DINER
I can travel exclusively just for culinary delights. Although eating a live octopus is bordering close to the limits of my adventurous side, I'd probably do it and regret it, but leave with a memorable moment and not-too-appetizing experience that I have gained in life. I do prefer to go for quality food that is reputable, delicious, well-made and I know that I cannot get back home in Brisbane.
My palette of course is no match for Bear Gryll's, but I can manage and prefer to to go out of my comfort zone to try different and new things. I'd travel far and wide to find that sumptuous, glistening bowl of ramen, of which is one of my favourite dishes.
It's always interesting for me to learn as much about what I am eating, especially if it's special, delicately and carefully prepared and cooked, and this may include asking what specific potato's they may use (I did actually ask this when visiting the Mad Spuds Cafe in Sydney for a brunch with my friend where I ordered the Mad Spud Stack which was a crispy potato cake with haloumi, avocado, roast onion, spud skins, sweet potato and mint yoghurt) as shown below.
.. and just for your information they were using the King Edward Potato, a commonly available potato with fluffy texture that was sourced from local farms in Robertson on the Southern Highlands of NSW, which give the potatoes a robust unique flavour.
#4 THE ZEN BEN, OR WHINY NELLY
Travelling to different countries, different places presents various experiences. Upon returning from Sydney, I took notice that some of my travel experiences were a letdown because of extremely different travelling styles between myself, my friends, or fellow travellers that I've met whilst exploring certain cities. Although, I do try to rationalize to myself that a bad experience, is an experience in itself and is often more memorable than a happy experience. It is often a good idea that we shall skip the lie that some of us tell ourselves and jump straight into choosing our travelling partner.
The blog hits the nail on the spot, as it is often that as we travel more in the company of friends, that we have come to the unfortunate realisation that not all good friends make good travel partners. Gaining an understanding that different people have different travelling styles and habits goes a long way in helping us to choose the right travel partners and ensuring our trips go as smoothly, or as interestingly, from my perspective, as possible.
#1 THE GET UP AND GO, OR LIE DOWN AND NO
Some of us fall into the latter category of laid-back travellers. When we indulge in a holiday, winding down from our hectic schedule back at home is our top priority. A morning lazing in our lush queen-sized hotel bed? Perfect. Spending our entire afternoon on the beach’s daybed with our favourite read? Now that’s more like our cup of tea.
Travelling with the former group of people may then prove to be problematic. Unlike the laid-back ones, the busy travellers love their itineraries packed full of activities. From trekking in the morning to visiting 5 museums in the afternoon and a night full of shopping, such a travelling style may leave laid-back travellers gasping for air and frustrated.
Whether you are a busy or laid-back traveller, it is best to pick someone who is similar in travelling style.
- 1/4 unplanned for spontaneous adventures and experiences
- 2/4 packed itinerary visiting the iconic tourist sites, as well as the off-beaten hidden gems
- 1/4 of just pure indulgence relaxing and lying in the king-sized bed of 5-star hotel overlooking the city scape, the seascape, the landscape, whatever iconic, beautiful and majestic view that the city I am in has to offer or just spending some quality time with a loved one.
#2 THE NEAT FREAK, OR THE MESSY MONSTER
When we travel with a partner, we are bound to expose a little more of ourselves (not literally, of course). We all have bathroom habits. Some of us need only 15 minutes to shower, others, an hour.
Does uncapped toothpaste tubes set off alarm bells in the morning? What about the navigating through your travel partner’s field of scattered cosmetics?
If these bathroom pet peeves tie a proverbial knot in your robe strings (or literal), we suggest talking to your travel partner about them prior to the trip. Communicating these expectations in an amicable manner would prevent you from brushing your teeth with that tube of concealer.
The key here is to also understand that different people possess different habits. Try not to fret over these personal differences and the trip will be a more enjoyable one for both you and your partner.
I prefer the luggage to be neatly set out on the luggage rack, clothes that will be worn to be hanged carefully in the closet and shoes preferably in the closet too. Although communicating these expectations with your fellow traveller is important to ensure that both needs and wants are accommodated, but it'll definitely be so much easier with a fellow travelee that follows the same rules, this of course negates those who are messy but fun to travel with, you guys are the only few exceptions.
#3 THE ADVENTUROUS FOODIE, OR THE SAFE DINER
It cannot be denied that food is the one thing that brings people together and often a huge reason why people travel to a country (think Bangkok and Hong Kong). However, the glorious quest for food is not for everyone – divisions can happen if one traveller is a foodie and the other is not.
We all know that one person who wants to put a live octopus tentacle in his/her mouth and wash it down with a cup of crushed crickets deep fried to perfection just moments before. However, while some of us have the industrious palette of Bear Grylls, it is important to remember that not everyone has the same taste. Some of us are much safer diners – we prefer to stay within our comfort zones and going for familiar food choices.
Remember that not everybody shares the same sense of curiosity in food, and that if you are a foodie who is out to seek out a culinary adventure, it is best to bring along someone who’d appreciate a good food hunt. Finding out and deciding how far one is willing to travel for that sumptuous, glistening bowl of udon is the key in this situation. Nothing spoils a trip more than an unwilling party.
Things other than the cuisine can sour the meal as well. For example, splitting the bill evenly down to the last decimal point may scratch the inner OCD itch in some of us, where others prefer not to deal with the nitty-gritty.
I can travel exclusively just for culinary delights. Although eating a live octopus is bordering close to the limits of my adventurous side, I'd probably do it and regret it, but leave with a memorable moment and not-too-appetizing experience that I have gained in life. I do prefer to go for quality food that is reputable, delicious, well-made and I know that I cannot get back home in Brisbane.
My palette of course is no match for Bear Gryll's, but I can manage and prefer to to go out of my comfort zone to try different and new things. I'd travel far and wide to find that sumptuous, glistening bowl of ramen, of which is one of my favourite dishes.
It's always interesting for me to learn as much about what I am eating, especially if it's special, delicately and carefully prepared and cooked, and this may include asking what specific potato's they may use (I did actually ask this when visiting the Mad Spuds Cafe in Sydney for a brunch with my friend where I ordered the Mad Spud Stack which was a crispy potato cake with haloumi, avocado, roast onion, spud skins, sweet potato and mint yoghurt) as shown below.
.. and just for your information they were using the King Edward Potato, a commonly available potato with fluffy texture that was sourced from local farms in Robertson on the Southern Highlands of NSW, which give the potatoes a robust unique flavour.
#4 THE ZEN BEN, OR WHINY NELLY
Murphy’s Law states that what may go wrong, will go wrong. Sadly, this particular adage won’t be far from the truth especially in any travelogue. When travelling to a new place for the first time, the possibility of getting lost, boarding the wrong train or missing that ticketed ferry-ride are all very real nightmares.
This is when having a travel partner who possesses a calm and composed character, coupled with the ability to think rationally in unexpected situations, helps. The last thing anyone would want when lost in a foreign land is a travel partner complaining and whining about the whole situation without offering any solutions.
This one isnt' too surprising for me. I am well-known for my calm and composed character, but looks can be deceiving as I'm generally quite passive by nature, but once things do cross the line, I do speak my mind and try to alleviate any issues that of a repeat nature.
But things to note is that there no absolutely not benefit to complain about an issue, unless there's a reason to do so in a manner that allows both parties to resolve on the topic of the issue that is being complained. Obviously there's better approaches to notify, let your friend know rather than complain.
#5 THE WIDE-EYED, OR THE UNIMPRESSED
It is often said that the journey is less important than the destination, and for good reason. Compressing a part of your life into a suitcase and carting it off to a destination unknown is all about taking the paths you would not usually travel.
Travelling with someone who has an inescapable sense of wonderment makes even the most mundane and routine tasks, such as catching the bus to the stop nearest to your hotel, a real joy. Such wide-eyed travellers make for good companions for someone who shares the same enthusiasm for travelling. On the other hand, if your travel partner is one who lacks any sense of intrigue and is blinkered to the joy of discovery, it can be quite a dampener.
Making a careful choice of who to travel with helps to make your much-anticipated holiday more enjoyable. However, as John Steinback aptly puts, “A journey is like marriage. The certain way to be wrong is to think you control it.’’ It is important to realize that we cannot control everything and things do go wrong when we travel.As a wide-eyed traveller with an inescapable sense of wonderment from every interaction and every unique new thing that I encounter and an unimaginable sense of curiosity and drive to seek new experiences and pleasures, I simply do not enjoy travelling with humdrums, whiners and complainers who easily unimpressed or believe that they know things better. Enjoy the moment, make most of it and most importantly, carpe diem.
In a trip as such, travel partners need to give each other a bit of room for imperfections and flaws, and be a little more accommodating to our travel partner’s idiosyncrasies. The best thing we can do for ourselves is to take things in our stride, and try to make the best out of our holiday vacation.